For Immediate Release
How can I tell if this
relationship will work out?
You meet someone, mutual attraction is obvious.
And after several dates you get the feeling “this could be the
one”. But how can you be sure?
Author and Relationship Coach Peter Hector in
his book “Love is no guarantee” tells what you need to know
before you fall in love.
Hector is convinced that love relationships
continue to fail because couples bypass the important steps they
need to take before entering into a relationship. Despite the
flood of books and information on the subject available worldwide,
one out of every two marriages end in divorce according to U.S
statistics. Why? “Because people don't pay close attention to
what they read especially in psychology books; hence couples
continue to make the same mistakes over and over again.” He
says.
According to Hector books need to be written in
language average people can relate to. So in a format simple
enough for most people to read and digest, he has provided a book
which people can uses a guide to understanding the complexity of
relationship problems. “Love is No Guarantee” answers common
questions such as:
- Why you should not accept a date on short notice.
- Why advertising for a mate in the personals work.
- Why early sex can ruin your chances of a successful
relationship.
- Why you shouldn't prepare a home cooked meal in the early
stages of dating.
- Why true love a second time around hardly exists.
Relationship problems are not new but instead of
getting better things seem to have gotten worse over the past
decade. Marriage breakdowns and the resulting consequences have
become a subject of such great concern in the U.S that President
Bush has allocated an unprecedented $1 Billion of public funds to
promote marriage (CNN).
Who would have thought that governments would
resort to posting billboards and slogans sanctioning the joys of
matrimony?
And broken marriages account for only part of
the problem, it's also clear young people have become increasingly
fearful of marrying altogether. Men are choosing to wait much
longer until the right partner comes along, while women are
resorting to pursuit of careers and other interest.
The Author has interviewed 500 men and women in
six countries and has gained valuable incites into what makes
relationships succeed or fail.
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