"Indeed the good man may not be hard to find, but the question is; Would you want him after you found him"
- Regina Barreca

"Love is generally confused with dependence; But in point of fact, you can love only in proportion to your capacity for independence."
- Rollo May

"We all want, above all, to be heard – but not merely to be heard. We want to be understood – Heard for what we think we are saying, for What we know we meant."
- Deborah Tannen